Most of us rush to give the “right” answer: Because I was in love. Because we wanted a future together. Because it was the next step.
If no one was watching and no one would judge you—what would you say was your real reason for getting married?
We tell ourselves: Once we’re married, he’ll settle down. Once we’re married, I’ll finally feel secure. News flash: Marriage amplifies what’s already there. It doesn’t perform miracles.