In the summer of 2023, a bookstore in Portland, Oregon, hosted a reading event for children. The author was a 34-year-old transgender woman named Mara, reading a picture book about a penguin family with two dads. Outside, a small group of protesters held signs demanding the event be canceled. Inside, a dozen parents sat on a rainbow-colored rug, their toddlers entranced by the story.
But to focus solely on suffering is to miss half the story. Transgender culture is also one of profound joy, creativity, and resilience.
On one hand, most mainstream LGBTQ organizations now have trans-specific programming. GLAAD’s media guide includes extensive sections on trans terminology. Pride parades, once divided over trans inclusion, now routinely feature trans flags (light blue, pink, and white) flying alongside the rainbow.
But on the other hand, a small but vocal minority within the gay and lesbian community—often labeled “trans-exclusionary radical feminists” (TERFs) or more broadly “gender-critical”—argues that transgender identity erodes same-sex attraction and women’s rights. Figures like J.K. Rowling have amplified these views, creating a rift that has left many younger queer people baffled and hurt.