If you saw a post about this, here’s the context you need to know:
The major modding platforms (CurseForge, Mod The Sims, Nexus Mods, Patreon creators like Deaderpool, Turbodriver, Lumpinou, etc.) do not host or endorse mods that explicitly simulate domestic violence. Sims 4 Domestic Abuse Mod
If the post you saw was praising or linking to an actual domestic abuse mod, it's likely fake, outdated, or from a fringe source that’s been banned. If it was warning against or critiquing the idea, it's part of an ongoing conversation about responsible modding. If you saw a post about this, here’s