Most "advice" for big beautiful women (BBW) and the men who want to date them is either patronizing or just plain wrong. It tells you to apologize for your body or to treat a curvy woman like a fetish.
You must break the "secret lover" frame immediately. BBWPickup version
Pick a spot with booths or low couches . A low, soft couch allows for the "comfort touch"—a hand on the knee, a shoulder brush—without the awkwardness of a high-top table. Most "advice" for big beautiful women (BBW) and
Stop Shrinking: The BBW Pickup Version Playbook for Real Connections Posted by: Coach Mike "The Realist" Pick a spot with booths or low couches
Let’s cut the crap.
The audacity to walk up to a woman who society told to be quiet. The audacity to look her in the eye in a room full of judgment. The audacity to say, “I see you, and I want to know more.”
Congrats. You just reduced her to a grocery list.